Sunday, March 10, 2013

Dallas Blooms 2013


This morning we went to the Arboretum to see the tulips and other flowers and get some pics of the kiddos.  :)  It was a really pretty day with the sun shining finally after having a couple of gloomy days, but it was freezing in the wind!  Still, we enjoyed our quick trip to see the grounds and snapped quite a few wonderful pictures of the kids.  They spent most of the time tucked under a fleece blanket in the stroller, but we got them out for pictures.   Emerson wanted to run around and walk, so she was a little perturbed with us for making her ride.  I'm looking forward to going back there this coming Friday and probably Saturday as well.  The weather will surely be better and more like Spring.  I want to get some pics for Cam's b-day invitation and Easter pics as well.  Since it was so cold we didn't take the time to get the Easter eggs out for pictures.  I didn't want little man crawling in cold and wet grass!  Below are the pictures we took... there were so many I liked and did not want to cut out so there are quite a few!!
We visited the Arboretum when Emerson was 10 months old and took this picture of her that I have always loved.  I thought about it earlier and got a picture of Cam in the same place.  :)

Here is sweet little Emerson at 10 months.  :)



I love this little boy so much.

I also love streams...

A sweet couple took our picture.



Daddy's little girl  :)

I like this one, too!  In the poetry garden entrance.

Tulips!

 Emerson running to give Daddy a hug.

More tulips

Such beautiful colors.

Our little princess... that is what she likes to be called.  :)


I could give him kisses all day.

My boys!

She always wants to touch the flowers.  :)

We really love looking at the flowers everywhere... the landscaping there is absolutely stunning always.  Soon we will go get some flowers for our house and garden area out back.  I am so glad that March is here!  :)  

Afterwards we went to have lunch at Spring Creek BBQ and all enjoyed the food and the FREE ice-cream.  Well, Frank and I did... I gave both Emerson and Cameron some and they were both disgusted with it.  :)

Thursday, February 28, 2013

Cam's 10 month update!

February has only 28 days this year so Cam is celebrating 10 months today!  It is hard to believe he will be a year old in just two months!!  I have already started getting party stuff ordered and purchased and am looking forward to celebrating his first year!  He continues to grow so fast and is such a sweet little boy!!  He has become quite the stinker already too with his constant missions to explore every part of our first floor.  There is no stopping this little guy!!!  It has been a fun month for Cam... he has learned even more new things!

  • Cam has gotten super fast with crawling and pulls up on everything!!!  It makes me nervous that he is so brave!
  • He likes to try to put his fingers in to electrical outlets!!  We obviously stop him... no need to call CPS : ) 
  • Cam just learned how to crawl all the way up the stairs for KK... Frank and I are just able to get a few steps out of him at night before he wants to move on to something else!
  • KK discovered that Cam could feed himself the pouches of baby food.  She saw another young kiddo doing it and thought Cam could too, and was right!  He loves it!  We do, too!  It's a win-win!  ha ha...
  • I really think he is actually saying "mom" and "momma" now... before I thought it was baby babble, but I think it is ligit now.  :)  He also does this lip smacking thing that is so cute.  
  • He is a healthy eater... he has 3 bottles throughout the day, his first around 8am, then another at 2:30, and then 7:45.  He has a breakfast cereal, then 2-3 jars/pouches at lunch and then usually 3 things of food/pouches for dinner.  He loves the Gerber stars and gets cranky if we don't put lots of them on his highchair tray for him to pick up and eat!
  • He is getting a little better with the sippy cup, but still not great with it.  
  • He is getting over his first cold, but it hasn't been too bad... lots of snot to go with the never ending drool!!
  • During the week Cam sleeps longer it seems (seriously... as opposed to sleeping longer Saturday or Sunday) and will stay in bed past 8 alot of the time, but on the weekends is up around 7:30.  He is taking 2 naps still... the first at 10 lasting until around 12 and again at 3 until 5 or so.  We get him in bed for the night around 8:30.  
  • He enjoys the sleep sac for nighttime or nap time still and sleeps with a paci.  That is pretty much the only time he has a paci or if we are going to be in the car for a longer trip.
  • Cam is getting bigger, but I am not sure what he weighs.  He seems to need 18 month clothes if it is Carter, size 12-18 for Gap/Target clothes.  
  • He is wearing size 4 diapers.  
I have a few fun videos of little man.  He is just such a cutie pie:

Cam feeding himself a pouch!

Just crawling around to explore the house!

Cam was making some funny sounds.

Little man crawling and pulling up to stand so he could get the remote!  He actually walks along the furniture a little, too!


And here are some pictures from throughout the month... many taken on my phone!

 Our blue eyed sweetie pie!

Having fun being a boy!

Big guy feeding himself his bottle.


 I love these expressions!!  


He loves those pouches!


Could anyone resist that smile?


Our happy 10 month old!


He has grown so much!

Sunday, February 24, 2013

House of Cards

Our world has been shaken with the news of Frank senior's cancer... Yet again when all seems well and we are busy living and enjoying life things change in an instant.  It seemed harmless enough... just another spot for the dermatologist to remove, or in this case a surgeon, but really it was just a glimpse into what was brewing beneath the surface.  At first it was dreadful news and I knew when Frank called me on his way home telling me his parents needed to talk to us together that it was cancer.  I just knew.  But we did not and could not have believed it would be as developed as it is.   Stage 4 Melanoma... How?  How can a person who is diligent about getting his skin checked have this?  How can a healthy man have this?  Of course, I know that has nothing to do with it... when Dad was diagnosed with cancer it was just as much of a shock... a man who ran track in his youth and college days, put on a few "healthy" pounds, but never smoked and hardly drank was diagnosed with esophageal cancer.  In this way it all sounds so familiar.  Frank's dad is healthy... he is an active golfer and is always doing something whether it is running up to Golfsmith (yet again!) or to Great Hills to see friends, he is out and about.  He is so cautious with his health and uses sunscreen but it seems that it was not enough to stop this.   I have done so much thinking about this... the unpredictability of life and how hard it is for me to accept not being able to control it.  I do everything I can to keep things in control in my life... I have schedules, routines, and plans for what I want to happen.  I want to plan for things to always be as they should in my mind.  I have such a hard time with the reality that it is not in my control.   What we have is this house of cards... we build it into what we want it to be with the hand we are dealt.  We build layers and fill it with so many things that are important to us... our families, our friends, memories... but at the end of the day it is all so fragile.  It feels like in an instant it can crumble.  I realize we are incredibly blessed.  We have amazing children and have loved and enjoyed every minute as we share our children with our parents and family.  Watching both my parent's and Frank's parents be grandparents and dote on our children has been truly wonderful.  I am fearful that this will change or I guess in a way I know it will change, though we do not know when.  While that is both obvious and inevitable as this is the way of life, I did not think we would be faced with this reality any time soon.  We pray daily and I know so many of my friends do the same... this is not in our hands and far from my control.  I need to find comfort in knowing that what is meant to be will be, but I am not sure I can. Please sweet and understanding family and friends of ours, please keep praying.  For now things are calm with Big Frank.  He is still tired and is taking so much medicine, but it is too soon to know if the cancer medicine is working.  And thank you to our family and friends for helping us through this.   I find strength in knowing my family and girlfriends are always there for us... It helps me to be there for Frank... I have expressed to many of you that Big Frank is pretty much Frank's best guy friend... they talk constantly about golf and what is going on... such mundane conversation to a non golfer, but to them recounting the shots on the holes at the course, what club was used, where the holes were placed on the greens, etc... this conversation is always special to Frank.  They share this bond and always have.

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Cam's 9 month update!

Our sweet little guy turned 9 months old last Tuesday, which is crazy.  We were out of town that day and I actually missed his doctor's appointment, but KK had it all under control.  It has been a super busy month for Cam... he officially became an expert crawler early in the month and since he figured out how to get around we have been busy chasing him all over the house!  Here are the major highlights from the month and the low down on his routine and schedule:
  • We still get him in bed around 8:30 and he sleeps generally until 7:30 or sometimes closer to 8.  He sometimes wakes in the middle of the night and we have to change his diaper because we hear him scooting around and being restless, but usually he sleeps all night.
  • We dropped to 3 bottles (8 oz each) at the end of last month/beginning of this month and that went so well.  At the same time we moved him to 2 naps and he pretty much instantly adjusted.  I was thinking he would need a few days, but that was not the case.  So now nap time is 10-12 in the morning and 3-5 in the afternoon.  
  • He is still eating 2 big jars, drinks water out of his sippy cup with help, and he is able to feed himself the Gerber stars.  He especially likes those.  :)  We will start moving to table foods some.
  • Cam wears size 3 diapers, but size 4 also work.  We are close to being out of size 3 so that is good that size 4 works.  :)
  • Depending on the brand it seems that Cam wears size 12 month clothes so this means he can wear size 6-12, but sometimes that is hard to get over his head.  So we have some 12-18 month clothes as well.
  • I mentioned that Cam learned to crawl and that has been a lot of fun and also makes me nervous.  He has gotten faster and faster!  He will get a very determined look on his face when he spots something and off he goes!
  • In the middle of the month he learned how to pull up to standing, which he only did every now and then at first, but has now become a daily thing when playing.  A lot of times he has a wide stance and it looks funny, but he is so proud of himself when he does it.  
  • He doesn't always want to cuddle now... he would rather be able to crawl around and play so he gets a little cranky when you hold him sometimes.  When he wants to cuddle I am sure to squeeze him and give him hugs and kisses.
  • He also clapped his hands one time, but now I think this could have been an accident because he hasn't done it again.
  • He is a drooling machine and we generally always have a bib on him...
  • He absolutely adores his big sister and gives her the biggest smile when she talks to him.  Many times he will crawl after her to try to catch her and it is so wonderful to hear them laughing and playing together... such happy sounds. 
Stats from his appt:
Weight: 22 pounds 5 oz (75-90%)
Height: 29 1/2 inches (90%)
Head Circ: 46 1/2 cm (75-90%)

These are the highlights.  We love our sweet Cameron so much... he is such a joy and always so happy.  Here are some YouTube videos:

Cam and Emerson playing

Cam crawling

And here are some pictures!

Our sweetie crawling to me!

Future Aggie!

This was how he started to learn to stand!




They love playing together now

Some pictures from the nature preserve in Plano







Some pics after church...


Such sweet kids...




We were out for a stroll!


Taken a week late at 9 months 1 week!!

Thursday, January 24, 2013

2013 Hopes and Goals :)

I have been meaning to write just a quick little post on what I hope 2013 brings and what we are planning to do individually and as a family.

Personally there are a few things for me, some of which are standard goals every year to be honest!  But not all!

Emily's goals-
  • Lose weight/exercise more -  I have actually been doing a detox, which has been successful.  I lost 7-8 pounds, but I have been cheating more here lately.  But this is ok, I am going to continue on with the goal.  This means healthier eating and a lot more exercise.  I am going to be running again and I am really excited to start that up!
  • Go to church more- I guess this is more of a family goal...We have not been good about this yet, but we are going to work on it.  :)
  • Work on the family history book- I started this massive project early in Cam's pregnancy or around that time and gave up because I wasn't feeling well, then I was busy with other stuff and the rest is history.  So I am going to start that up again because it is a very important project to me. 
  • Cook at home more/try new recipes- This sort of goes along with the lose weight goal, but recently I have found that a lot of recipes look fun, healthy, and are within my cooking skill set!  :)  I also hope to feed Cameron (& Emerson) more of what we eat rather than feed them different meals than what we eat.  I think this will be a process.  It is not my forte.  
So these things are on top of me being the best mom, wife, daughter, friend, etc that I can be, which is something I really do try very hard to do and be.  I will continue to blog about the things we have going on in our lives for us to remember and for family and friends to know what we have going on.  

Frank's goals-
  • Lose weight/exercise more-  Ok, so I had a small part in this, but seriously, this is one of Frank's goals that he WANTS to do.  :)
  • Keep up with yard maintenance- Frank enjoys pruning and weeding, no joke.  So he is going to stay on top of the landscaping so it looks good year round.  :)
  • Teach Emerson how to play golf/take the kids to the course- Frank is excited to start teaching and showing Emerson the golf fundamentals.  She may be young, but I think she already has the idea!

Emerson's goals-
  • Be a sweet big sister 
  • Be potty trained
  • Learn to play golf
  Ha ha, no, I am not really setting goals for my 2 1/2 year old, but I thought this would be funny.   But since I did list some I guess I will list a couple for Cam as well.

Cameron's goals-
  • Learn to walk
  • Start sleeping longer in the mornings, like until 8 or so :)
  • Say "Momma" for real and say it first :)   (I am still not counting that he is saying it even though he says a "mamamamamama" sound.)  
While we can't predict or know what will come our way in 2013, we know we have the most amazing support system with both of our families and some truly compassionate and loving friends.  We just received some very difficult and challenging news with Frank's family.  We will be leaning on our family and friends for support to get through this time.  And we hope and pray that 2013 will bring healing and health to his family and that all of our loved ones will be in good health.

Some of my friends have some wonderful and exciting things in their lives to look forward to this year and I am so happy and glad for them.  I am thankful to be in their lives to share in their joy!  We are also so very excited to go to Hawaii this summer with my family.  The kids will be staying behind and will be missed, but we are looking forward to the special time together in paradise! 

Sunday, January 20, 2013

Our growing 2 1/2 year old!

It is hard to believe that Emerson is 2 1/2 and that in just under 6 months she will be 3!  She brings so much joy to our lives every day with her sweet little grin, her giggles and laughter, her beautiful and cheerful eyes, and the silly (& smart!) things she will say.  She is growing into the sweetest big sister and just last week hugged Cameron, gave him a kiss and told him she loved him.  It made me so happy to see and hear that since I think for a while she was hoping we would get rid of the little guy.  :)  Now she thinks he is fun and asks me if he can play with the blocks with her.  She shares the blocks with Cameron for the most part and I absolutely love seeing them play together.  She has gotten so independent at times and is definitely possessive with things she believes are hers.  She will tell us "It's mine! I had it first!", which I have no idea where that came from because we don't say that to each other.  Maybe she came up with that?  Here lately we have gotten a kick out of her telling us that she said "Please" when she wants something.  Usually it will be something like she will ask for gummies after dinner, which I don't ever do, but the girl knows what she wants.  So she will say "Gummies please?" and I will tell her "No sweetie, you don't need gummies right now" and she'll say "But I said please!! Pah-lease!  Mommy please!"  How do I explain to her that yes, she said the magic word, but that she doesn't always get what she asks?!  :)  Another thing that will crack me up are the glares she will shoot my way when she is frustrated with me... ohhh man, she has some good ones.  And bless her heart, she is doing her best to make sure I understand she is irritated, but I think it is so cute and funny.  So I try not to laugh or grin where she can see it, but I really do find this funny.

I am not sure if she is having nightmares or if she is getting scared, but she has been waking up in the middle of the night almost once per week.  I will wake up and hear her screaming and crying and fun up to her room to see what is wrong.  Usually I'll change her diaper and hug her for a minute before telling her to go "night night".  One night she asked if she could sleep with us and I caved and said ok.  So she slept between us and I think she had a great time.   She was tickled to be able to do that.  So the next night she wanted to do it again, but I didn't let her... so far so good because she hasn't asked again. But she does like to lay down and snuggle on the couch sometimes with me now to watch tv.  She has claimed this one blanket and won't let us use it.  Sometimes she will lay down on the floor to watch tv and Frank has gotten down there with her.

At night we will change for bed and talk about the day.  Most of the time Frank and I tag team and she loves having us both talk to her before she goes to sleep.  We sing some songs, are starting to say a nighttime prayer (we hadn't been doing that), sing the ABCs, etc and then she will give me kisses on my left cheek, then my right, then my left again, then right again, and on and we are both giggling because she just cracks me up.  So I will stop her and say ok, it is time to go night night.  So we tell her we love her and lay her in bed and she will usually say she loves us and says "Goodnight mommy", and "Goodnight daddy" in her sweetest little voice and I hate to walk out of her room because it makes me want to hug her close some more.  

She loves planes and helicopters.  Frank got a toy flying helicopter for Christmas and she likes watching him fly it around.  One day we need to go out to the airport and watch planes take off and land.  She also loves trains and asks about them all the time.  And of course, she loves the golf course... it has been pretty cold, but we were able to go the other day so she could use her new golf clubs and she had a blast.  I know it is going to be fun for Frank to teach her (and baby brother) how to play... and she looked so darn cute.  I, of course, think she is a natural.  :)  She also had fun pretending to drive the golf cart since Frank let her sit in his lap when we went out to get their clubs in the car.  That is one of my favorite things about the golf course, too... I haven't met a person who doesn't have fun driving a golf cart.  :)

Her best friend is still Violet, but I think Cameron is getting in place to claim that title before too long.  But right now Violet still gets special attention being pushes around in the shopping cart or stroller, she gets pretend diaper changes, and is fed lots of pretend food by Emerson.  She has a great imagination and is always having pretend telephone conversations, making pretend food in her kitchen set, and pretty much anywhere we go!

Food is still limited for us as far as options, but lately she has tried a few news things like cucumbers!  I was surprised she liked it, but she had several slices.  

Two words I don't like, but that are going to used more soon are potty training.  Emerson really did not like it when we tried this before, but we are going to give it another go soon.  I know she is smart enough and that is actually part of the challenge.  She knows what it is and what you do, but she is stubborn.  So we will see if we can get her to like the idea of wearing cute underwear soon and using the "big girl" potty.  

Emerson sweetie, when you read all these posts about our family and you read these updates I hope you can tell just how special you are to us and to everyone you know.  We love you so very much!!  

Here are some pictures of Emerson's other half milestones and more.  :)

@ 6 months- 2 years ago!

@ 18 months - last year!

Emerson snuggling with Dad on the floor.

Emerson with Daddy in the golf cart

Our 2 1/2 year old cutie!

Daddy showing her how to hold the club.

Practicing her swing!

Saturday, January 5, 2013

8 months!

Well, it happened again... another month flew by!!  :)  Cameron is getting closer and closer to being 1 year old... yowsers!!

Here are the highlights with what happened and Cam's routine.  December was such a fun and busy month!!  Little man has continued to grow so fast it seems!

  • Cam was still drinking 4 bottles with 8 ounces in each. (We just dropped bottle, but this happened after 8 months. :))
  • He is eating more during lunch and dinner.  Now he has 2 bigger jars or 2 pouches each time.
  • We introduced the sippy cup with water, but were not too good about being consistent. 
  • He may have only two arms, but at times it is like he is an octopus grabbing everything in front of him.  Two adults can find it a challenge to keep things out of his reach while eating.  :) 
  • Cam started doing what we call the "Breast Stroke" crawl.  He will extend his arms out and will drag his body as if his legs don'e work.  :)  He has gotten really efficient with it and can go pretty fast.  He is now actually crawling a tiny bit.  He gets his knees under him, crawls out a little and then says forget it, I can breast stroke faster.  I am pretty sure that is his thought process... it makes sense to me.  :)  We will have to see what happens over the rest of this month.
  • Cam was taking 3 naps (9:30, 1:30, and 5:30) but we just changed that as well to move him to 2 naps (10 and 3).  
  • We get him in bed around 8:30 still and he is waking up around 7 or so.  Sometime he keeps his paci and sometimes he spits it out.  
  • He is wearing size 3 diapers for the day, but we also bought size 4 nighttime diapers to help with his overflow situation!  He was peeing so much that he would leak fairly often.  The nighttime diapers are super helpful.  
  • He has EIGHT teeth!  The last two came in pretty early in the month.  So now his teeth have all had time to really come in and they are huge looking!  He is still in pain pretty often it seems so I am not sure if more are coming through soon or what.  
  • Lately he has gotten so vocal and will really "talk" to us.  We are enjoying that!
  • Emerson has started to play with Cameron more and he absolutely loves it.  He adores her and his face lights up when she looks at him.  It is so sweet. :) 
  • Cameron is getting too big for lots of his clothes, especially some of the 6-12 month size clothes. He fits best into 12 month clothes now it seems... or 12-18 month size.   
  • We moved Cam to a normal carseat this month.  He was just too big to be lugging around in the baby carseat!  
  • I weighed him using our scale and he weighs around 22 pounds.  This is pretty much what Emerson weighed at 1 year.  :)
Here are some videos of our little goober... he is just so funny.  :)  He makes funny noises and breathing sounds!  And when he is trying to crawl he gets a little frustrated sometimes.  :)


This video is from Christmas... he is doing his breaststroke crawl.  :)


Here are some pictures as well!

Hello!!!

Little man with his stocking!

He is slouching, but here is our sweet 8 month old!  :)

Emerson wanted to be in a picture, too.  :)